10 Things No One Tells You About Moving to a New City!
February 12, 2025
by Morayma MaKay
Corporate Relocation Consultant & Coach
Get-Ready-Set-Move
“The art of the move.”
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One Moving to a new city is often painted as an exciting adventure—new sights, fresh opportunities, and a chance to hit the reset button. Those are all true, but while there’s plenty of fun to be had, relocating also comes with its fair share of surprises. Beyond packing boxes and hiring movers, there are a ton of little things that no one really warns you about—things that can catch you off guard but also make the journey uniquely yours.
Here are 10 surprising things no one tells you (until now!) about moving to a new city:
Making Friends Takes Longer Than You Think
You might assume that meeting new people will be as simple as saying hello at your local coffee shop or gym, but in reality, forging meaningful connections can take time. Established friend groups, busy schedules, and the general hustle of life can make it harder to break in socially. To make things easier try joining local clubs, classes, or meet-up groups based on your hobbies. Volunteering is also a great way to meet like-minded people and feel more connected to your new community.
You’ll Miss the Familiar—Even Things You Thought You Wouldn’t
You may have been excited to leave your old city behind, but don’t be surprised if you find yourself missing the little things: your favorite grocery store, the barista who knew your order, or even just the predictable route to work. Nostalgia sneaks up when you least expect it, so give yourself grace and time to adjust. Create new routines and discover new favorite spots to fill the gap.
Every City Has Its Own Unspoken Rules
From traffic patterns to social norms, each city operates on its own set of unwritten rules. You might notice different attitudes towards tipping, recycling, or even how people greet each other on the street. Observe and adapt by spending time getting to know local customs, and don’t be afraid to ask locals for advice—most people are happy to help newcomers!
You’ll Become Hyper-Aware of Your Budget
Moving often comes with unexpected costs, and once you’re settled, you might find yourself shocked by the cost of living. From utility rates to grocery prices, things can add up quickly in a new city. Track your expenses for the first few months to get a clear picture of your spending, and adjust your budget as needed.
Your Sense of Direction Might Take a Hit
Even if you were a human GPS in your old city, navigating unfamiliar streets and neighborhoods can be very confusing. You’ll likely get lost (more than once), and that’s okay! Use navigation apps, but also give yourself permission to wander and explore—getting lost is often the best way to discover hidden gems!
The Weather Might Affect You More Than You Expect
You might think you can handle a colder winter or a hotter summer, but a new climate can really impact your daily life. From wardrobe changes to adjusting to shorter daylight hours, weather plays a bigger role than most people anticipate. To help ease into things, prepare for the climate before you move by investing in the right clothing and gear and learn to embrace seasonal activities to make the most of your new environment.
Finding New Health Care Providers Is a Hassle
Setting up new health care can feel overwhelming. Finding doctors, dentists, and specialists you trust takes time, and navigating new insurance policies can add to the stress. Start the process early by checking with your insurance provider for in-network options, ask for recommendations from coworkers or neighbors, and transfer your medical records ahead of time.
You’ll Discover Quirks About Your New Home
Every city has its quirks—maybe the local bagels just don’t taste the same, or the city’s idea of public transportation leaves much to be desired. These little surprises can be frustrating at first but often become part of what makes your new home unique. Learn to embrace the quirks! They’re part of what gives your new city its charm and character…and you just may grow to love them!
You Might Feel Like a Tourist in Your Own City
Even after you’ve unpacked, you might still feel like an outsider. It takes time to feel like you truly belong somewhere new, and that’s completely normal. Play tourist on purpose—visit local landmarks, try new restaurants, and attend community events. The more you engage, the sooner you’ll feel at home.
You’ll Grow in Ways You Never Expected
Relocating isn’t just about finding a new home—it’s about personal growth. Moving challenges you to step outside your comfort zone, build resilience, and embrace new experiences. You might surprise yourself with how adaptable and adventurous you become. Keep an open mind and a positive attitude. Remember that every challenge is an opportunity to learn and grow.
While the relocation process can be full of surprises—some fun, some challenging—it’s all part of the adventure. Here’s to new beginnings and all the surprises that come with them!
